7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
Habit 4
4. Think
Win-Win
Teens
can learn to foster the belief that it is possible to create an atmosphere of
Win-Win in every relationship. This habit encourages the idea that in any given
discussion or situation both parties can arrive at mutually beneficial
solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishments of others
instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is a belief that everyone can win.
It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t step on you, but I won’t be your
doormat either. You care about other people and you want them to succeed. But
you also care about yourself, and you want to succeed as well. Win-Win is
abundant. It is the belief that there’s plenty of success to go around. It’s
not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s no matter who gets the biggest
piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food for everyone. It’s an all you
can eat buffet.
Win-Win
always creates more. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of thinking Win-Win id
the good feelings it brings on. The true test of whether or not you are
thinking Win-Win or one of the alternatives is how you feel. Win-Lose and
Lose-Win thinking will cloud your judgment and fill you with negative thoughts.
It will fill your heart with happy and serene thoughts. It will give you
confidence. Even fill you with light. Think Win-win or no deal.
Choose The Right!!!
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